Now that I am beyond 40 it's time to start thinking about how people perceive me. Maybe it's time to loose the cleavage showing bar clothes for a more mature, studious look. My friend qkwirk took this a few months ago when I was trying on Chrissy Lynn's glasses. What do you think? Do they make me look smart?



The thing that surprises me most about getting older is how much I look like my mother. All my life people have told me that I look just like my birth father but in the last year I have started to look just like my mother. At Christmas my sister even mentioned it. H3 took this picture when I was in Vegas a few months ago. When I downloaded it to the computer I was shocked to see my mother looking back at me.


(In case you can't tell us apart that is me on the right and Ava Gardner on the left)